to my younger self or my children in the future
hi there
this is a period where you could feel all sorts of emotions and life is going to be like a rollercoaster.
you may find your parents' constant reminders really naggy and annoying. but please, try to listen what they have to say and listen in their perspective. they ultimately want the best for you, as cliche as it sounds and they are humans just like me and you. They are not perfect but they are trying their best to provide for you. so reciprocate their love, express your gratitude.
you may also start to feel insecure about yourself, especially seeing all the perfect instagram pictures. but my dear, you are you. stop comparing yourself to others. to be truly happy, you need to tell yourself you are enough and you do not need validation from others. focus on things that makes you feel good about yourself. this is your life, not others, make a life u want to be remembered for and work hard towards it.
you will also start to feel stress. about school and relationships. remember, very importantly, grades do not define who you are and never will. it is the hardwork and perseverance you have put in, the willingness to learn that will show who you are. it is okay to make mistakes, dont beat yourself up over it. most importantly, it is your eagerness to learn and your tenacity. try to think outside the box and never stop questioning things that have already been set in place, that is how you will grow.
remember, you are loved so deeply by your friends and family. so loved. never be afraid to seek help from others when u need it. you are not alone. dont keep all the emotions to yourself, share it with somebody you trust.
i hope you can make the most out of your youth by having fun because that would be the best years of your life, i promise. hang our with your friends and laugh a lot because these are the memories that you will hold on to for my life.
love,
wei
this is a period where you could feel all sorts of emotions and life is going to be like a rollercoaster.
you may find your parents' constant reminders really naggy and annoying. but please, try to listen what they have to say and listen in their perspective. they ultimately want the best for you, as cliche as it sounds and they are humans just like me and you. They are not perfect but they are trying their best to provide for you. so reciprocate their love, express your gratitude.
you may also start to feel insecure about yourself, especially seeing all the perfect instagram pictures. but my dear, you are you. stop comparing yourself to others. to be truly happy, you need to tell yourself you are enough and you do not need validation from others. focus on things that makes you feel good about yourself. this is your life, not others, make a life u want to be remembered for and work hard towards it.
you will also start to feel stress. about school and relationships. remember, very importantly, grades do not define who you are and never will. it is the hardwork and perseverance you have put in, the willingness to learn that will show who you are. it is okay to make mistakes, dont beat yourself up over it. most importantly, it is your eagerness to learn and your tenacity. try to think outside the box and never stop questioning things that have already been set in place, that is how you will grow.
remember, you are loved so deeply by your friends and family. so loved. never be afraid to seek help from others when u need it. you are not alone. dont keep all the emotions to yourself, share it with somebody you trust.
i hope you can make the most out of your youth by having fun because that would be the best years of your life, i promise. hang our with your friends and laugh a lot because these are the memories that you will hold on to for my life.
love,
wei
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